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What to Do When Your Spouse or Your Friends are Negative?
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: Family |
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: 35 |
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: 22 June 2008 07:00 |
Michael Losier 2004. You may include this article in your ezine or on your website or distribute it to others, provided you include the copyright statement and the bio information tag line found at the end of this article. This year (2004), Ive completed over 64 seminars. And one of the most common questions asked is, "What do I do when my spouse, partner or friend is being negative?"As you practice Law of Attraction in your life, you become more aware of what you are attracting and start to understand that you can control what you attract with deliberate use of Law of Attraction. The more deliberate you become in controlling what you want to attract, the less and less tolerant you become of any situation that doesnt feel good---in particular, negative relationships in your life. But what do you do when the person who is being negative is your partner, spouse or child? Its not likely you will just eliminate them from your life altogether. How can you deal with a situation that is contaminating your positive energy with negative energy?First of all, Id like you to remember that it takes two people to argue or fight and you always have a choice about what you choose to talk about. When you are with your mate, or friend or child and they are complaining about something they dont like or telling you how much their life isnt working in some respect, you always have two choices:1) You can buy into their conversation, join it and thereby lower your vibration to match theirs; or2) You can steer the conversation in a direction that creates change in the vibrationHow do you steer a conversation into a more positive vibration? Its quite simple; just ask the question, "So what do you want?" That question may surprise them because they are not used to answering it. They may even have some resistance. But keep asking it. When they do answer, youll soon hear their words change and see how the change of words always creates a change in their vibration. The best news of all is that a person can only hold one vibration at a time.Yes, we all have negative people in our lives, but now you have a tool to use when you feel your positive energy becoming affected by anyones negative energy. From now on, your experiences with negative people can be different!Heres your assignment! Write the question, "So what do you want?" on post-it notes and put them by your phone, on your fridge and on your bathroom mirror. This is a powerful tool that delivers rapid change! About the Author Michael Losier, a Law of Attraction Trainer and author, supports people in understanding and practicing the Art of Deliberate Attraction, so they can have more of what they want and less of what they dont. Michael has been applying the principles of Law of Attraction for many years and enjoys a wonderful and rewarding life in the city of Victoria, BC. www.LawOfAttractionBook.com.
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